15 Romantic Ways to express your Love and spice up your Married/love life

Everybody like surprises and if it about spicing up your love life it will be no better than trying some, out of the routine, tricks to make your partner feel special. So what are you waiting for, try few of the tricks today and see the smile on the face of your life partner.

1. Puzzle him/her

Leave clues around the house for him to find. Once he has all the pieces together let him/her piece it together to read - I Love You.

2 Let your partner get starry eyed

Use the scraps from Glow-in-the-Dark sticker pages and cut out the words "I LOVE YOU". Stick them over your partner's side of the bed. Every night, when the lights go out your sentiment glows on the ceiling!

3. Serenade your partner

Pick a song that is special to both of you and exercise those vocal chords. You are sure to win brownie point for the gesture, just make sure you practice before you take the stage.

4. Create a photo album with witty one liner

It will put a smile on your face and remind you of all the special moments and memories you have spent together.

5. Candlelight dinner and dessert

Whether it's the meal on the plate or a kiss on the lips, make sure your partner knows that you are the hottest one on the menu.

6. Cook dinner together

Instead of going to a fancy restaurant for an expensive meal, cook a simple but delicious dinner at home, and enjoy each other's company.

7. Sign up for a ballroom dance class

Try Latin ballroom dancing, brush up your moves and have a blast together on the dance floor.

8. Say it with toast

Prepare a special breakfast for your love one and surprise them with it. If you have an espresso machine try making a heart with froth on the coffee and toast with jam that reads I love you.

9. Say it with a heart-shaped sandwich

Carve heart-shaped bread and fill it with your partner's favorite fillings. They are sure to appreciate the treat and the gesture.

10. Take off on a trip together

Celebrate being together with a trip to your favorite holiday destinations.

11. Milky way

Hide a bunch of silly prizes and a card in your lover's favorite cereal.

12. Cut an album

In your own voice, record poetry or a song on a CD for your partner to listen to on the way to work or while he or she is out of town.

13. Say it on the mirror, mirror on the wall

Use that old tube of lipstick to write a good morning greeting on the mirror.

14. The tasting game

Take strawberries, chilies, chocolate, mix different flavors and blindfold your partner. If they guess the right one reward them with a kiss.

15. Go the tech way

Change the screen saver on the computer to a scrolling message. For added effect, use a wingding or character font that can't be read without decoding.

The Glowing Bride : Dos and Don'ts before your Wedding Day.

It is without any doubt that the Center of attraction of any wedding is the bride and every girl wants that she looks her best on her special day .

Preparation to look best starts long back even months before.

 To really glow as a bride you need to start taking care of yourself well before the D-day. 

Here is how …

Solah Shringar or the beautifying rituals, one for every part of her body, beginning from the top of her head to the tip of her toes, has been customary with brides since time immemorial. But since there is no magic wand, you need to plan your skin and hair care routine two months in advance. If you don’t know how to start consult a professional for a sitting to discuss how to go about it.

Helping Hands

Avoid nail polish on both hands and feet for at least four weeks before the wedding so that you can let your nails breathe as well as prevent them from becoming yellow. A regular manicure is a must. Apply almond oil onto the hands every night before sleeping and twice a week apply the following

1 melted candle, 4 tsp sesame oil, 4 tsp sandal oil, 2 tsp milk.

When this has mixed well in a saucepan, paint it on the hands with a broad dye brush and leave on until it solidifies be careful that you do not apply the wax on too hot otherwise you could end up burning yourself. Once it has solidified peel off the wax and feels your soft hands. If you are fond of long nails but if you have brittle nails, start to consume a tsp of gelatin every day with half a glass of water for two weeks.

Body beautiful

The body plays an important role and anointing the body with scented oils and clays for several days before the wedding was and is to some extent quite a common practice amongst brides. You could go in for regular body massages, which are both relaxing and rejuvenations for the body and mind. If you don’t have time to have a massage once a week than start to add ¼ cup of olive oil in your bucket of water and use as a last rinse after you have used soap. Most people do not realize the importance of the hidden parts or rather neglected parts … Breasts, buttocks backs and necks. Start to exfoliate these areas with a scrub made from powdered almond, walnuts and china clay, which has been mixed together with milk and sandalwood oil. Use a back brush for the back and scrub the buttocks, inner thighs, elbows and knees. This will smoothen out the skin and also prevent it from building up any dead surface skin.

Face Facts

The face just has to be absolutely perfect and rather than cover up those dark circles and pimples with make-up. Why not improve the condition of your skin naturally. Let me assure you that no amount of makeup will ever be able to replace the natural glow on a brides face and no amount of blusher can be substitute for a naturally blushing bride. Clean, tone and moisturize your skin regularly and above all know your skin type and then start any treatment. Never use what suits your best friend or your sister., for all skin types are different and must be treated differently.

Skin must be exfoliated regularly and the scrubbing must always be done in rotating movements but very gently. If you have under eye dark circles and continue to keep late nights I would suggest that you massage them with pure almond oil to which you have added an equal quantity of coconut oil and a few drops of lemon juice. Leave this on for about an hour and wipe off with a moist cotton wool pad that has been dipped in milk. This done every day for about two weeks will fade away the most stubborn of dark circles, However you cannot sleep in the wee hours of the morning and think that this treatment will still be effective. Increase your water intake to at least 10 glasses a day and also check to see that you are taking a plenty of greens in your diet.

There are some more universal tips everyone can use.

Be Gentle

Treat your skin with the gentleness it deserves. Wedding skincare isn't about beating your skin into shape, it's about being kind to your skin. Wash with a non-abrasive cleanser and make sure to moisturize after washing.

Watch out for the Elements

The sun can do a lot of damage to your skin. Make sure your lotion or moisturizer as well as the makeup you use on your face has a sunscreen in it. Skin care for wedding beauty will be a lot easier without having to fight against sun damage in addition to whatever else you are trying to correct by the wedding day.

Wear Gloves

When you are gardening, or doing dishes, or anything else where you might do damage to your hands or nails, wear a pair of gloves. Gardening gloves for gardening, and rubber gloves for doing dishes or other wet jobs. This will help your nails stay strong and your skin stay smooth up to your wedding day. 

Saif Ali Khan and Kareeena Kapoor Getting Married this October.

The Bollywood wedding of the year would take place in October in Delhi and Mumbai. There will not be any ceremonies in Pataudi or Bhopal . 'Saifeena'- wedding of Saif Ali Khan and Kareeena Kapoor, would be a low-key affair with limited invitees said the groom's motherSharmila Tagore, here on Tuesday.

"D-day is on October, sometime. I am not at a liberty to disclose the date. You'd have to ask Saif," sharmila addressing to Media

She related the hype surrounding the wedding to happy family serial. "You'd be disappointed. No extravagant celebrations are planned. It would be a small family affair," she said. The restraint on celebrations is because the wedding would be held nearly a month after the first death anniversary of Saif's father - Mansoor Ali Khan Pataudi.

Sharmila said Pataudi wasn't chosen as a venue because of security considerations.

Sources said that that the wedding may take place on October 16.

Sharmila was in Bhopal attending the board meeting of the royal waqf properties called the Auqaf-i-Shahi, of which her daughter Saba Sultan is the custodian.

What not to say to your fiance

As a newly affianced woman, you have doubtless received countless pieces of advice from your friends and relatives. This advice probably ranges the gamut from “The way to his heart is through his stomach” (given by well meaning aunties) to “Be sure to behave properly in front of him if you want to keep his interest” (given by well meaning grandmothers).

But it is the twenty first century, so you should have some practical advice on how to deal with your man. After all, you will be spending the rest of your lives together, so it is best to begin as you mean to get on.

You should never censor yourself in front of your man, but sometimes it is better to let some things go unsaid. Apart from the no brainers, like not comparing your fiancé to your ex boyfriend, here are five things you should avoid saying to your guy — either to avoid a fight, preserve his ego, or save your own sanity.

"I really don't care — let us do whatever you want to do."

One thing guys wish that women would do on date night is Just. Freaking. Pick. Something. Do not worry about whether he will balk when you suggest a new foreign movie or roll his eyes if you say you want Italian food. You are as much a part of this relationship as he is, and trust me, he will love that you took the initiative to suggest something fun.

"Saif Ali Khan/ Robert Pattinson/ Imran Khan is soooooooo hot!"

No one loves man eye candy like I do, but if you go on and on about what a stud Hritik Raushan is, it will make your guy retreat into his man cocoon. No one — male or female — can compete with an airbrushed, professionally gym trained, designer clad superstar. Admire your favorite actor/ celebrity in private — and save the verbal praise for your guy when he cleans up nice for dinner.

"Does this make me look fat?"

We all know that no one wins if you ask him this.

"Do you think she's pretty?"

Unless he is always able to contort his face into a believable state of revulsion before you get to the last syllable of "pretty," he won't be able to give you an answer that won't send you into a rage. Listen, there are plenty of other hot women in the universe; you can't really expect him to say that Aishwarya Rai Bacchan "is not his type." Do not force the issue unless he is openly gawking at anything in a skirt or flirting with the waitress right in front of you. Then it might be time to reassess why you are in the relationship, not whether you measure up.

"What are you thinking?"

One of my guy friends summed his thoughts on this question nicely: "Trust us: You don't want to know." It's nice to retain some of your relationship's mystery, right? Also: Sometimes a blank stare is just a blank stare. Fill up your own mental canvas with something scintillating while he daydreams.

Are there any suggestions that you think I’ve missed out on?

Courtsey :- ShadiExpress.Com The Express Matrimony.

How To Build Trust In A Relationship

Trust is the glue that binds lovers together; especially when they are faced with adversities. Trust has a way of keeping a couple united.  Mistrust often forces people to part ways in a situation of relationship crisis. Most often this creates chasms filled with doubts about one another.  Therefore, sense of security is the key to a happy and healthy relationship and it only comes to fruition by trusting each other completely.

Here’s how you can place the building blocks correctly and stay happy in a relationship, sans the frenzy of mistrust.  

Be honest and truthful to your mate

 Just a small lie is good enough to ruin a potentially beautiful relationship.  Saying you’re going to come home late as you have a meeting, office work, etc. and instead you go and play a game or two of poker with your friends could lead to disastrous repercussions once the wife finds out.  She wouldn’t care much for the lie that you’ve told, but it would dwindle the trust flame in your relationship as her mind would wander every time you decide to stay out late.  She may wonder what else you could be lying about and this could lead to her not trusting you.

Reliability

Make sure you stay true to the promises you make, be it big or small.  Reliability and trust go hand in hand.  You should stick to what you say. If you’ve told your husband that you’re going to do something at a particular time on a particular day, make sure you do it. Reliability is a major step in the building of a trust worthy relationship.

Set Boundaries

You should set boundaries with your loved ones, especially with those outside your marriage/relationship.  If boundaries or limits are not set, then jealousy plays a big hand in tearing couples apart. Make sure you make your loved one feel that he or she takes precedence over everyone else.     

Trust

Learn to trust your partner 100%. Do not crucify and accuse your loved one for cheating or betraying you unless you have evidence to support your claims.  Without proper proof, you’ll just create a dark cloud of mistrust that may prove very hard to get rid of.  You must take your spouse’s word for whatever she or he may tell you; have faith.

These are just a few of the ways which will help you build trust in your relationship.  Follow these, and you will be well and truly on your way to a more trustworthy relationship.

In his unlikeliest role to date, Brad Pitt turns wedding planner... 

According to reports, Angelina Jolie has not planned a single detail of her wedding to Brad Pitt – rather, the actor is organising the big day himself. 

A source close to the actor has revealed that Brad has been in charge of all the arrangements, from reception placements to hymn choices. The ceremony is said to be taking place on the couple's estate in France, and builders have been flown in especially so as to ensure that renovations are completed before the big day. 

The source revealed to The Sun: 'Angelina isn't so bothered about when they tie the knot – it's Brad who is piling on the pressure... He wants everything to be absolutely perfect.' 

Jeweller Robert Procop – who designed Angelina's engagement ring – has also spoken about the couple's imminent nuptials, saying: 'Brad and Angelina are a very romantic couple. They always knew they'd be together forever and get married one day, right from the start'. 

Blank wedding invitations can really save you money


If you looking for a great price for wedding invitations, blank wedding invitations can help you. These invitations can be customizing. Customize invitations should be beautiful, but also the price is very expensive. You should taking a little time to find high quality blank wedding invitations that inexpensive and you should taking a little of your own work to make them. This can save your many and it will be beautiful wedding invitations.

That’s hard to make your blank wedding invitations become beauty and elegance invitations. To overcome it, you should spend a little time for looking the options that available for the invitations. This will make your blank wedding invitations not only beautiful and elegant, but also can make a good deal for saving your money that can be used for other purposes of your wedding.

Nowadays, you can design your own blank wedding invitations using a home computer. With the technology of printers and computers that so advanced these days, you can do the work yourself and still have the elegant and beautiful invitations you dreamed of. Before that, you must make sure you choose an elegant font and buy a good ink for your printer.

For these kinds of invitations, you should buy blank wedding invitations and a good ink for your printer. You can print these invitations yourself at home. Your guests will be none the wiser as long as you have lots of ink, good printer, and choose an elegant font. You gift your guest an impression that can convey of your wedding day with a careful searching and a little thoughtful wedding planning.

Another way is using calligraphy. This will make your blank wedding invitations become more beautiful. By hire a calligrapher, you can minimize the price of printing. If you have a calligrapher friend, you can ask your friend to help you by give their services as your wedding present. Your blank wedding invitations will be quite unique and imaginative in this way.

TEN COMMANDMENTS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE LIFE

Success of Marriage requires both husband and wife to 

enjoy their relation and their willingness to be together,

here are some noteworthy points which must be 

followed by both make their marriage successful.

1. Bear and forbear.
2. Work together, play together, and grow up together.
3. Avoid the little quarrels, and the big ones will take care of themselves.
4. Compromise (give and take). 
5. Practice sympathy, good humor, and mutual understanding.
6. Don't grouch before breakfast or after it.
7. Respect your "in-laws," but don't criticize them or take criticism from them.
8. Establish your own home, even in a one room flat.
9. Fight for each other, but not with each other.

Build your home on religious faith, with love and forgiveness as the watchword.

Religion may be taken out of marriage registration

shadiexpress.com :The Union Cabinet is likely to consider a proposal that seeks to do away with the requirement to disclose one's religious affiliation for registration of marriages as well as the demand of Sikh bodies that their marriages be registered under a separate law. 

The move has been prompted by the consideration to help those opting for inter-faith marriages, along with the need to make registration of marriages a simpler affair. 

It is recognized that those who marry outside their religion face harassment, including from the conservative sections of the bureaucracy. 

Administrative convenience is the other consideration, with the law ministry suggesting that registration of marriages will become easier if a clause on marriage registration is added to the Births and Deaths Registration Act, 1969. 

In its note to the Cabinet, the ministry has argued that since infrastructure to register births and deaths is already in place in civic authorities, it can easily handle registration of marriages once the law has been suitably amended. 

As for the demand of Sikh bodies, they have argued that their marriages should be, as is the case with other minority communities - Muslims, Christians, Jews, Parsis - registered under a separate law. Marriages of Sikhs along with those of Buddhists and Jains are currently registered under the Hindu Marriage Act: an arrangement which is being opposed by many Sikhs as part of their pursuit for a distinct identity. These groups argue that their demand can be accepted by amending the Anand Marriage Act, 1909. 

The Cabinet will be required to factor in view that meeting the demand will spark similar pitches from Jains and Buddhists: two other communities that have so far been comfortable with the practice, where their marriages are registered under the Hindu Marriage Act.

Solah Shringar- The Sixteen Accoutrements

Indian women have always been encouraged to make the most of their looks with cosmetics and herbs. Even in the vedic times, Sanskrit texts laid down the concept of Solah Shringar or the sixteen traditional accoutrements with which every women could adorn herself. These were designed for every part of body, and irrespective of class, many of them can be fashioned out of wood, glass, fresh flowers or precious jewels.

For an Indian bride, the wedding day is the most important day of her life. Every Bride wants to look like a princess on her Wedding Day. Most of the girls in our country have lots of dreams for this day, since it marks the beginning of their journey into womanhood. Different kinds of beauty rituals are associated with the wedding day, as her female friends and relatives gather together to prepare her for the most special occasion of her life. Almost all the girls wish to look their best and epitomize beauty on their wedding day. In India, the beautification of the bride consists of sixteen parts and covers almost every part of the body, right from the head to the toe.  Solah Shringar is representation feminity and our culture. The bride’s solah shringar starts from the top with her hair and ends at her toe. Solah shringar(literally meaning sixteen decorations) is traditionally marked by the sixteen items of cosmetics and jewelry. Female relatives and friends of the bride participate in the process of adorning her.

In India, the beautification of the bride consists of sixteen parts and covers almost every part of the body right from the head to the toe. The term shringar is also associated with Goddess Lakshmi, who is a model wife and the representation of female beauty, good luck, prosperity and fertility.

Here are the detailed information about the solah shringar of an Indian bride—

Bindi
The first shringar of the bride, bindi has a strong religious implication and is a sacred symbol of a married woman which is put on the bride’s forehead and decorated with red and white dots around it and along the eyebrows.

Sindoor
A sacred symbol of suhaag, sindoor or vermillion is applied on the center parting of the hair and is a part of the shringar of a married woman.

Maangteeka
A hair accessory, Maangtika is worn on the central parting of the hair of the bride. It is mostly made out of gold and embellished with semi precious stones, pearls or diamonds

Anjana

Kajal or kohl is one of the most popular solah shringar. It is basically applied on the edges of the upper and lower eyelids, enhancing the bride's eyes and making it attractive and appealing.

Nath Nath or the nose ring completes the look of the bride, making her look traditional and ethnic. This ring is made of gold with pearls or other precious gems and is worn on the left nostril and is supported by a gold chain, which extends just behind left ear.

Haar
After the face, next comes the neck of the bride. It is adorned with beautiful haar or necklace. Necklaces and chains of different lengths which is usually made of gold and embellished with diamonds pearls or other precious stones are also worn by the bride. Mangalsutra which is worn around the neck is tied by the groom during the wedding rituals.

Karn Phool

Ear rings or karn phool adorn the ear of the bride. Since the ear rings worn by bride are quite heavy they are normally supported by a gold chain passing over the crown of the head. Mostly, the ear ring flaunted by the bride is made out of gold and is extremely beautiful and heavy.

Mehendi
Mehndi signifies the essence of love in wedlock and is essentially applied on the hands and feet of the bride, to strengthen that bond of love. It is one of the most special pre-wedding rituals in India.

Choodiyan
Bangles or choodiyan adore the wrist of the bride and are usally made of glass, laakh or gold. Conventionally, brides adore their wrist with red bangles.

Baajuband
Baajuband or more popularly known as armlets are worn on the upper arms of the bride over the sari blouse and are similar to bangles in their appearance. Mughal, Rajasthani or Jaipuri are the most popular designs of baajuband.

Aarsi
The fingers of the bride are adorned with exotic rings. Aarsi is the thumb ring which the bride wears. It mostly has mirror embedded on it and enable the bride to have a glimpse of herself as well as her life-partner.

Keshapasharachana
Apart from the make-up, hair style plays an imperative role in determining the look of the bride. Mostly, the hair is tied in the braid style, with hair accessories and flowers accentuating the look.

Kamarband
Kamarband is a waist band that is tied on the waist line of the bride. Made up of gold, it is embellished with stones, diamonds and precious gems and is beautifully designed.

Payal & Bichuas

Made up of silver, it is a thick chain that is tied on the ankle and is adorned with tiny bells that make enticing sound. Bichuas or toe rings are similar to rings worn in the fingers of the hand, but are worn in the fingers of each foot.

Itar
Itar is a special fragrance that is applied on to the bride. It emits a special aroma and that helps the bride stay fresh despite the long elaborate rituals performed.

Bridal Dress

Wedding saari richly embroidered with gold threads is considered, the most auspicious for Hindu weddings. However the choice can also be other bright bridal colors like maroon, gold, magenta or green and comprises of saree, lehenga and salwar kurta.

However a lot of changes have happened to the ritual of Solah Shringar over the years. Indian women follow the concept of Sola shringar even today. While it is possible to use some of these decorations every day, modern life and work make others, such as armlets on the upper arm or toe rings, impractical for daily use. Many brides prefer a minimalist look or can’t afford such jewelry. Many Indian women, however, even the more westernized ones, dress up in all the sixteen accoutrements for weddings, festivals and other special occasions. 

Tips for a Healthy Relationship

A relationship is like a tree, you need to nurture it so that it grows. If you don't do so, it's going to wither away. You have to take care of the relationship to help it grow properly and if you fail to do so, it's going to turn sour and eventually die. Only when you think of a relationship in this manner will you learn to value it so much. Maintaining a healthy relationship is very important for proper growth. A relationship that is not healthy might even grow more, but eventually, it will end and in the process it will trouble the two partners involved. A healthy relationship is a relationship where the two partners are happy and content and there is not even a single problem arising due to issues between just the two of them.

Healthy relationships bring happiness and health to our lives. It has a great impact on your mental and physical well-being as your better-half is the most important and close person in your life. All of us dream of a strong and long term relationship but many times, relationships don’t work the way we want. Studies show that people with healthy relationships really do have more happiness and less stress. There are basic ways to make relationships healthy, even though each one is different…parents, siblings, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, professors, roommates, and classmates. Here Let's now proceed to the tips that will help you to maintain this kind of a special relationship with your partner which can help you to maintain a loving, long-term relationship-

The First Important Thing Is To Mutual Understanding:- One of the most basic steps in building a healthy relationship is to understand your partner, and that is precisely what he/she expects out of you. Live up to this expectation and try to understand what exactly is the thinking process of your partner, or even the principles he/she lives by. Once you spend some time in understanding each other, you won't have to regret later on, not knowing about a few things. Understanding also helps in building a comfort zone where all problems and issues in life can be dumped and solved, together.

Be Oneself, and Not To Pretend: -It's much easier and more fun to be authentic than to pretend to be something or someone else. Most of us try to pretend but a strong relationship requires honesty. Sooner or later, it catches up anyway. If you are comfortable with yourself then the chances of making a relationship successful increases. Healthy relationships are made of real people, not images! 

The Relationship Should Be Given The First Priority: - Many relationships fail because they are not given first priority from one or both the parties involved. Don’t put careers, recreation, etc., before each other. You probably hope those around you like you so you may try to please them or take care of them. Don't forget yourself. There can be times when you need to do extra work but at that time also don’t forget to pay attention to your spouse. Healthy relationships are mutual!

Sharing of Thought: - Sharing of thoughts is very important when you're in a relationship, as this is one of the crucial aspects that makes a relationship grow and evolve to something better with passing time. If you don't share or understand that the other person wants you to share, it might lead to lack of empathy in a relationship which in turn means that the end is close. You have to emotionally share a lot on a level that will help you guys to connect better. It would be this connect that would make, being in this relationship worthwhile.

Praising Each Other On Little Things As Well: - Appreciations and compliments help to boost the relationship. When your partner knows that you care for them then their attitude towards you will be more loving.

You Should Have Realistic Expectations From Your Partner And About Your Relationship: -You should not expect something from your life partner that is either unrealistic or impractical. Higher expectations from your partner will only dissatisfy you and can become the main reason of your relationship falling apart.

Avoid criticizing: - Attack the problem, not the other person.  Open sensitive conversations with "I" statements; talk about how you struggle with the problem. Don’t open with "you" statements; avoid blaming the other person for your thoughts and feelings. Healthy relationships don’t blame.

Don’t hold grudges: - You don’t have to accept anything and everything, but don’t hold grudges—they just drain your energy. Studies show that the more we see the best in others, the better healthy relationships get. Healthy relationships don’t hold on to past hurts and misunderstandings.

Try And Avoid Petty Issues And Don’t Make Them Big: -Most relationships have some conflict. It only means you disagree about something, it doesn't have to mean you don't like each other! If you allow a small thing to bother you for a long time, then you will start looking at other things that bother you and it will get out of control. Avoid arguments and blaming each other, instead try to understand their viewpoint.

Talk with each other: -It can’t be said enough communication is essential in healthy relationships! It means— Take the time. Really be there. Genuinely listen. Don’t plan what to say next while you’re trying to listen. Don’t interrupt. Listen with your ears and your heart. Sometimes people have emotional messages to share and weave it into their words. Ask questions. Ask if you think you may have missed the point. Ask friendly (and appropriate!) questions. Ask for opinions. Show your interest. Open the communication door. Share information. Studies show that sharing information especially helps relationships begin. Be generous in sharing yourself, but don’t overwhelm others with too much too soon.

Forgiveness: - A very important aspect of a relationship is forgiveness. We are all humans and are bound to make our share of mistakes that might hurt the people we're in love with. Today, if you forgive your partner, tomorrow he/she will forgive you. This freedom will let you make your share of mistakes, and will also help you to live carefree and happy. Yes, there are certain things that can't be forgiven and shouldn't be too. However, don't go to the extent of parenting each other. Give each other the much-needed space, as it's all right to go wrong sometimes.

Trying: - One of the most important points in knowing how to have a healthy relationship with your partner is to try to make things work. No relationship is perfect unless you try to make it so every moment of your life. Changes are needed in every relationship and these have to be implemented with constant trial. You have to be receptive to this change and then adapt to these changes with time. If you convince yourself that there is no need for change, the relationship might get boring and might lose the element of surprise and adventure.

The goal is for everyone to be a winner: - Relationships with winners and losers don’t last. Healthy relationships are between winners who seek answers to problems together.

Show your warmth: - Studies tell us warmth is highly valued by most people in their relationships. Healthy relationships show emotional warmth!

Keep your life balanced: - Other people help make our lives satisfying but they can't meet every need. Only you can fill your life. Don’t overload on activities, but do use your time at college to try new things—clubs, volunteering, lectures, projects. You’ll have more opportunities to meet people and more to share with them. Healthy relationships have room for outside activities!

Now that you know how to have a healthy relationship with your partner, start working on the tips mentioned above as soon as possible. There are times when you won't get a second chance, and this is why it's important you act in time to make your relationship better for the both of you. A loving and caring relationship is something to treasure as long as you live. If you follow these simple tips, then you’ll be able to experience the warmth of a wonderful relationship.You can also discuss these points with your partner and both of you can work on these things together. 

ALL THE BEST!